Is god a man ?

We keep referring to him as he so surely god is a man, no ?

No my thinking tells me that he/ it is not a man. Nor is he/it a women. He created the concept of man and woman. Male and female. So he/ it is not of them. He/ it is something unique and very different. But we tend to use the he attribute to refer to him/ it mostly. Perhaps because of its power. 

Connected to this question is wh’s is god ?

For me god is a living entity that is the origin of all things existing. It is the cause behind them all. Without it being present nothing can exist. Where would it emerge from ? Things cannot emerge of their own accord. They can’t make themselves. So an external maker must exist. Otherwise how ?

This is basic logic.  But even that has become confused in today’s age.  We seem to think that by chance things can come by themselves ( and from nothing). We have been taught this. And we seem to have accepted this. And accepting this has brought about a lot of confusion.